Powerlessness
There are some things we cannot do, no matter how long or hard we try. These things include changing other people, solving their problems, and controlling their behaviors. Sometimes we feel powerless over ourselves-what we feel or believe, or the effects of a particular situation or person on us.It is important to surrender to powerlessness, but it's equally important to own our power. We are not trapped. We are not helpless. Sometimes it may feel like we are, but we aren't! We each have the God-given power, the right, to take care of ourselves in any circumstance, and with any person. The middle ground of self-care lies between the two extremes of controlling others and allowing them to control us. We can walk that ground gently or assertively, but in confidence that it is our right and responsibility.
Affirmation: Today I will remember that I can take care of myself. I have choices, and I can exercise the options I choose without guilt.
-Excerpt from, The Language of Letting Go- Melody Beattie
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Afformation: Why do I remember to care for myself? Why do I exercise my options to choose without guilt?
ReplyDeleteWhen we ask ourselves these questions, our mind sorts through our consciousness and brings together all the reasons we would want to do these things. If we just make statements, our mind doesn't have to believe it because it doesn't have any supporting evidence that it is true.
Bring out the best from within! Let your mind do the work.... it is very powerful.
You are right! There are many reasons why we should do these things! Self care is essential for health and personal growth. We feel guilty when we don't set boundaries in relationships. Ultimately we are in charge of our own thoughts and emotions and cannot change other people. This has been a struggle for me. I want everyone to be happy and healthy but I can only do so much!
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